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I am 22 yr old girl. I was a hindu.

In my 8th standard i was in a relationship with a pakistani guy n he cheated me n took gold from me n after that never came back.

Then when i was in 11th standard alhamdulillah i converted into islam but my family is still hindus only.

n i feel in love with a muslim guy. he was really very good in the beginning he only taught me how to pray and all that. after that he left to india and got spoiled n started abusing me n i left him. he had pix of us being together.

Then after in clg i fell in love with a non muslim guy with a high hope that i would convert him into islam n all. initially he was good n we used to hangout n do stuffs n he has ma pix again. then he also started treating me badly n then i left him.

Right now am in a relationship with a muslim guy. He doesnt know fully about my past he just knows that i had a non muslim boyfriend previously but he doesnt know we hugged n kissed each other n all n he said its ok everyone does mistake so no problem ur a small girl u dunno anything like that he said. Then i started hangin out with this guy n hugged him n kissed him too. Hes really serious with me n me too. hes ready to talk to my family too regarding marriage but i told him not to cuz i still havent finished my studies still 2 more years to go. n i was serious with everyone else i never cheated.

Now the non muslim guy is trying to follow me whenever i go out and hes trying to contact me though i put him in block list. I really wana get married to this muslim guy now . He asks me to wear hijab and pray and all.

Can you please help me out n tell me what i should do cuz my brother came to know it n hes strongly against islam. And i really want forgiveness from allah n am praying everyday including all the nafl prayers and tahajjud prayers. Now i dont want that non muslim guy to trouble me n make my life hell. Can someone tell me the solution please . This muslim guy is ready to talk to his parents too about me n hes gonna tell them v soon. How should i make my family accept?
PLEASE HELP ME GUYS

Princess

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  1. Salaam sister. The fact that you have searched for the truth and found islam as a true religion of God is a testament to your attachment to faith. No one should get in the way of you searching for truth. Not even your family. They wouldn't help you attain paradise when you would be standing in front of God would they. It's your life that's important so welcome to Islam and i hope Allah makes your life easier for you. You must also make every effort to keep away from haraam relationship before marriage as marriage is what Allah prescribed for us to enjoy. Also that is not to say you should disrespect your parents as you still have a duty towards them. But you must continue following the right path. Allah forgives all sins as along as it's sincere. For he is the most forgiving and merciful .

  2. Assalamualaikum sister. Welcome to islam. Do not worry sister, Allah ta'ala is ever so merciful and is closer to us than our jugular vein. Allah swt answeres the supplicant when we call upon Him. Repent for your sins before you make dua and dua to Allah with full faith that it wil be fulfilled. I am glad to hear you are doing tahajjud prayers. Tahajjud is like an arrow that does not miss its target. That is a time when duas are answered. You can dua that the hindu guy does not ever trohble you again and also dha to soften your parents heart to let you marry him. After all you are now a muslim and you are supposed to marry a muslim your parents should understand that. If this man is good for you, I pray that your marriage and married life becomes smooth sister. And sister i advice try to stick regularly to the teachings of islam such as wearing hijab and restricting yourself from meeting this muslim boy before marriage as this leads to sin and temptation. If things are meant to be,it will be have hope in Allah. And do not worry too much about the other boy spoiling your life. Just block him and tell him and if he still bothers you then tell him politely you have movedon and that he should too. Do not fall for his threats and since you had told the boy you intend to marry about your past then there is nothing to worry. If he understands you good and since it is your past u are not at fault. Repent for your sins, continue acts of worship and dua. Dua for protection from harm as well. Have faith in Allah, He is our protector.

  3. OP: n i feel in love with a muslim guy. he was really very good in the beginning ......started abusing me n i left him. he had pix of us being together...........Then ..... i fell in love with a non muslim guy ........ then he also started treating me badly n then i left him.......Right now am in a relationship with a muslim guy. He doesnt know fully about my past........ he said its ok everyone does mistake so no problem ur a small girl u dunno anything like that he said.

    I have a feeling third guy is going to use you too, like the 2 before. Until you are ready to get married stay away from guys.

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