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Boyfriend demands that I have an abortion before he will marry me (3)

He promised to marry me but without his parent knowing… and the marriage will be held in my country by real married. But I have to remove the baby first… Im worried that when I do whatever he asked me… and he might be run away and leave me… and at the end I am the one will be the loser. I told him about it, and he keep swearing by Allah name also Quran that he will do it when we didnt have haram baby in my stomach. Even I recorded his promise that his going to marry me after this.

I converted to Islam, but committed a grave sin (6)

I am a 37 yr old revert to Islam living in the USA. I converted less than two years ago when I finally quit drinking, ALHAMDULILLAH, and ended my 20 year struggle with alcohol.

I’m a girl in 9th grade, can I still wear skinny jeans to school? (3)

Hi,

I’m kinda new to this I’ve never done anything like this but I have so many questions regarding the hijab and stuff like that.

Got physical with a stranger I met online and now worried about my parents and reputation (2)

Well I don’t know how to put this … I’ve done a lot of bad sins in my life. Like I go see guys when my parents are strict and don’t allow that. But this time I’ve let myself down. This guy flirted with me on a social network, I didn’t like talking to him at first but when I got to know him.. well I started to like him

My husband masturbates, can I divorce him? (4)

I am both a newlywed and a recent convert. I am married to a muslim man who is 9 years older than myself. He has a long history of sexual frustration and finding his release in masturbation – cybersex, phone sex, images, videos, even from comic books and cartoon images.

Had fight with brother, can’t control my rage (3)

Over all, there is much anxiety, panic, and anger in my life. I cannot control any of these at times. I have chronic anxiety and my panic symptoms come up. I get fast heart beat and something feel like I am going to die. I prayed to Allah so much in the past to remove this aliment from my life, but so far I have not seen much change.

Something always delays my marriage proposal (1)

I have known this guy for 2 years now and we have built trust through friendship, originally his family saw me at his sisters wedding and they came to my house 2 years ago. However, the day before they were supposed to come to my house to set a wedding date something bad happened to him and everything was put on hold. Everyone is saying this is a sign.

He changed his mind after reading Istikhara & receiving my reaction (1)

I met a good brother, we developed a friendship and we try to keep it halal, but I find myself growing emotionally attached to him. I asked him if he is looking to marry me, and he did ask me to marry him, but since then it has all gone downhill and I’m confused.

I’m falsely accused of adultery and now my fiance wants nothing to do with me (4)

I was engaged to a wonderful brother but a jealous former friend accused me of adultery and now my fiance wants nothing to do with me.

Cannot return the Haq Mahr to ex-wife (1)

I was married for a period of 2 years. Out of the blue when I was not expecting my wife left me to America with her father. I tried contacting her but there was no reply. I filed for divorce, and eventually I got it even though she did not sign the paperwork. At the time I wrote her a letter to send her haq maher (her dowry – some jewelry) to her, as she left it behind. but she did not reply. I asked her to come and collect it from my home.

My boyfriend is Muslim, I’m Christian, and we cannot convince his family (13)

I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, and he’s Muslim and I’m Christian. We have had a lot of trouble trying to convince his and my family that we really are devoted towards our love for each other.

Is “Wael” a good name? (2)

salaam,

i want to know is the name WAEL or WAIL a good muslim name or not and can u give few examples of people with this name pls.

All parties unhappy in this forced marriage situation (2)

I was seeing a guy from past three years and we have made our minds that we will get married. We have talked to our parents also, the guy’s parents (uncle and aunt) agreed and he formally proposed me for marriage to which I agreed, he was outside country and during that time his aunt arranged his marriage with the daughter of his brother.

My cousin & I desperately want to marry each other, but my family will not agree! (6)

i am in love with my mother’s brother’s son, he also loves me. their whole family knows about me and is ready for our marriage, but my family they dont know about this and they dont like that family at all.

Sexual intimacy in marriage in Islam (2)

I am to get married soon and I need information on the etiquettes of ‘sexual relations’ between husband and wife in Islam

Muslim girlfriend goes into a trance, is it the effect of an evil curse? (7)

I am non muslim french guy but we have talked about me becoming muslim but thats not the problem as i would become muslim, but my girlfriend suffers from evil curses and goes into trance like states and she said its because people are doing things on her.

I’m Marrying a Half Shia (2)

I’m Sunni, he is Shia. I love him, I’m engaged. There is no turning back. It’s formal and if I leave him I’d get a bad name in the society plus I love him.

I’m 16 and he’s 17 and I can’t bear to lose him (1)

I am 16 and hes 17. I love him, I don’t know why we are doing this to each other. I want him back and everything we’ve lost, I just dont know what to do. I asked almost everyone and they gave me different answers, none of their answers gave me peace

he married me urfi and now he hardly comes to see me or call me (4)

salam i am a new muslim and i need advice. i married for 7 months now but its just an urfi marriage coz my husband’s parents did not accept me when my husband told them about me. but still i married him coz i love him so much.

the problem is before we married he made a condition with me that he must to go back to his previous wife. he said it’s for the sake of his son and he told me that he cannot stay with me after that happens, and becoz i love him so much i accepted everything coz he promised me too that he will never change on me. but this not what happening now coz for 2 months now he is showing me that he don’t care anymore about me. i feel it coz he did not come to me he just came after 1 or 2 weeks and he cant even give me a call, he just call me after 4 days or sometimes 1 week.

We’re newlyweds but six months later, we are physically fighting (5)

I’m 18, and have been married for about 6 months. I knew him before we got married though and he was so charming with a beautiful love that I miss so much. But after we got married, things changed dramatically. We fought alot, so much about him annoyed me, and now he chokes me.

In limbo with absent husband who won’t divorce (14)

I got traded by my own father on some culturally backward promise and was married to a using Pakistani so that he could get to the UK. I have learned that my husband is definitely using drugs, cannabis and cocaine and he drinks alcohol. He shows no care or concern for the children and has become a stranger to them.