During the physical relationship we started falling in love with each other. He wanted to marry me because he said a relationship like that is wrong. After one month he did nikah with me. After two months I submitted my case of divorce in pakistan to get divorced to the first man. My divorce was final in november. I’m now pregnant, and my parents are cursing me and telling me to abort the child.
I embraced Islam. It seemed that I wanted to pull away from my old lifestyle, but she showed more interest in that which I had lost interest in. I wanted to start praying, but she wanted to go out. I wanted to attend Jumaa Prayer, but she wanted to go on a trip. I did it all to make her happy. I did what I could to keep her next to me, but felt guilty inside.
When our relationship ended, he twisted everything so that it was my fault that things had gone wrong, only because I said that I thought he was scamming me and he could not forgive me for what I had said to him. He was very horrible to me on a message, and called me a racist when I said that Muslim men are supposed to provide for their families. The strange thing is he also goes to pubs and nightclubs (although he does not drink), and chats to women on Facebook, which I did not think was accepted in Islam.
I found out last week that my partner of over a year has been married (very happily it seems) all along…
I told him that I didn’t consider him anything in my life, that I did it only for the sake of my life, that I will never live with him and that he should never bother me again. That guy told me that he wants to move on also, so the conversation ended with him swearing that he will never contact me again by any means or bother me, and he will move on. Am I married to this guy?
My behaviour changed him and he was not happy with me. Now he is saying that I have hurt him a lot in many ways which changed his feelings, but he still loves me and needs some time to be normal. He says we should make dua, and if it’s in our destiny we will marry.
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My parents all have explained to me I will need to guide him in life with education, jobs, etc and this frustrates me as I believe a man should do this mainly and I should be his supporter. This puts me off a lot and I feel I will lose my patience with him, and shout. My anger has started to appear, and I say bad things about him.
Good afternoon, I’m a filipina and a christian, and my boyfriend is pakistani and a muslim. He told me he wants me to marry me, but my instinct is that he’s not telling the truth because he has a 50 years old caller that always calls him. When I ask him about it, he told me that the woman is […]
I just told her that we muslims are allowed to marry christians, so she must have to perform the marriage the way of our islam- the way of a muslim- so that she can be my wife and I can be her husband. It’s just for me to make sure that she is my wife, and I would follow her way of marriage so that she can be sure that I am her husband, and she agreed with it.
Assalam o Alaikum, Can Muslim Men Marry with Christian lady with all respect? Please advise me in the light of Quran and Sunnah. She respects all the points of islam and is showing interest in Islam. Jazakallah, -muhammad farhan
Is it possible to convert to Islam without changing my name? My name is not a religious name its Shikha. It means top as well it is not against Islam. please help me.
They told me to forget about my husband because my nikah isn’t valid because they weren’t there… even though I have already certified it with a mufti and maulanaa. My father has a history of domestic violence and recently hit me.
Aoa, I got married in December 2013. My husband came from America to marry me, but after the marriage my husband couldn’t develop any physical relations wth me due to his weakness. During his stay of 22 days, he even treated me bad and criticized me in every way. Now he has gone back to resume his […]
My mother used to go to Al-Huda (An Islamic Teaching Center) where her teachers and some colleagues found out that our maternal uncle’s wife was going to a person (Ghazi Baba) who used the help of Jinns to harm and to help at times.
He is 4 years older than me. I have tried to confront him a lot of times about why he does not properly express his love…
But ever since I moved away from the US, I lost interest in Islam. I don’t pray at all, I don’t read the Qura’an, I don’t wear scarf when my parents are not with me, and when I do have to wear it, I despise it and I find it uncomfortable. I’ve become uncomfortable with the thing that’s gave me most comfort since I was 12 years old. I don’t know what’s happened.
if wife stay seperate and husband doesn’t give any shelter, money, spending money, but wants to visit sometimes and have intercourse with his wife, is it permissible for him to keep such a relation?
His girlfriend sent me pictures of their holiday whilst I was planning our wedding. He often hit me. I still obey him and always have. Do I not visit my father – my husband has no reason to say no but still does?
We had intimate moments, and he is the first man. I always want to be with him and according to him, we are already married because we had the intention when we got engaged. I do not know what to do. My husband and dad do not get along and it feels like he does not want marriage anymore.