Islamic marriage advice and family advice

Why has my Muslim man not contacted me? (8)

I just want to know what’s going on – if we are still together or whether I need to ‘move on’ and find someone else in my life.

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Can a stepfather be a wali? (1)

The girl’s mother had remarried when the girl was of very young age. The girl does not recall her real father, and she knows her stepfather as the real father. The stepfather has an affidavit to show that he had taken guardianship of the girl

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I am married, but want to marry again (3)

I recently met a nice muslim single guy who fell in love with me, and wants to marry me. We want to find a solution, but we are living in Turkey right now and it’s illegal to marry a married woman here. Is there any place that we can marry legally?

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Can a Muslim man marry a Catholic girl? (1)

So how does a couple like this go about getting married in Malaysia and registering the marriage? and what is the procedures and documents required?

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Abandoned after he got me pregnant (8)

Salamaikum, I was working when I meet a pakistani guy through my friends. I have muslim friends who are good and kind people.  He was being nice and invited us to his home for party, and that started our short relationship. We got into sex, and out of curiosity he let me try to smoke […]

Converting to Islam»

My past is making me sick! (6)

We have moved into a new house where I’m surrounded by people in this new area that knew (and I’m afraid will choose to not forget) about the things I did. I lose sleep. I look at my husband and feel guilty. I just want to cry all the time.

Culture Clash»

How should a Muslim deal with cheap people? (10)

I thought by just focusing on studying and getting good grades, one day these people would at least respect me and stop the name calling. I got good grades in my pre-university program, but I still didn’t get respect; I just got a new label: nerd.


Would this inter-faith relationship be allowed? (1)

I know that interfaith relationships are allowed between Muslims and Christians, or Muslims and Jews, provided they meet certain requirements, such as being devout. Is an interfaith relationship even allowed if one person is strong in their faith, but it’s a non-abrahamic faith?


Forced marriage – please help! (4)

When I think about marrying him my heartbeat stops for a while. I am very much afraid of him because of what he did to me(I can say it was zina because he did it before Nikah) at very young age. I want Divorce but parents will literally kill me if I would say this in front of them.

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Eid Mubarak! (67)

Eid Mubarak to all our readers!

Ya Allah, relieve the sadness of those who are suffering, and guide those who are wandering and lost.
Ya Allah, bring ease to our difficulties, and show us the way out of our problems.
Ya Allah, unite the Muslims to serve You and please You.


Istekhara for css exam (1)

Should I do istekhara? Since I don’t read the 5 times prayers, I doubt the perfect execution of istekhara within myself, so should I ask somebody else to do it? Or can you recomend somebody online to ask to do it for me?

Jealousy and Suspicion»

What to do about his infidelity? (3)

He said he doesn’t regret having cheated on me. He still doesn’t show he regrets, nor does something to prove to me that he loves me. He comes home late from work and goes out every night without giving me any explanation. But he cares for me (financially), and he really loves our 7 year old son.

Mahr or Dowry»

I want ask a question about my secret nikkah (12)

Is my nikkah valid and genuine? As my mother wants me to get married with someone else. My boyfriend did nikkah just to get rid of the sins and won’t do it legally.

Marriage to non-Muslims»

Pakistani boyfriend’s family hates me (19)

He’s willing to convert to be a Christian – I said no because I don’t want his family to hate him more. I’m open to the idea of converting to Islam, but my family doesn’t want me to…

Secret Marriages»

We got married but my parents don’t know (3)

My friends told me that without the presence of a girl’s parents in their marriage the marriage wouldn’t be valid. Is that true??

Sexual Issues»

I hate myself for being homosexual (13)

I am sick of myself so much and I just want to die. My concept of dying is that if I die, it will only reduce the sins that I will further commit.


Sunni girl in love with Shia boy (2)

I really want him to be my husband – he respects me and he respects my religion, help me please I’m confused.

Teenagers Issues»

I need help with my life (9)

I feel empty now and I don’t wanna study. I just don’t feel like doing anything, though I know I have to since it’s my last chance of having a good life.

Urfi Marriage»

Husband provides no financial support, but still wants intercourse (33)

if wife stay seperate and husband doesn’t give any shelter, money, spending money, but wants to visit sometimes and have intercourse with his wife, is it permissible for him to keep such a relation?

Physical violence»

Question about relations with brother in law in Islam (12)

I went to see my sister and my brother in law was home, though left after a while. I went and I did not have interaction with him. When my husband came to know about it he became very angry, so much so that he hit me on face, abused and threatened of divorce.


I destroyed my life for the man I loved… (16)

i never wanted to have a sexual relationship with someone before marriage let alone someone who left me for marriage and I have myself to blame. I can’t seem to move on… I feel totally destroyed.


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